A life of trauma and pain, determination and hope. It seems unfair to try to sum up the captivating life of Victor Lopez in only a few words. That is why a new book will give full justice to his story.
Lopez, a CCE senior English major, will publish his memoirs, “Victor’s Luck,” in the next year.
The opportunity for publication came to Lopez after his piece “Transcending Trauma” won the annual Student Writing Contest for The Nation Magazine while he attended Guilford Technical Community College.
Lopez received attention from agents and publishers. After 290 pages and a five-figure advance from a publisher, his memoir is heading into the editing stages. As of yet, Lopez does not know an exact publication date but hopes to see it published in 2014.
His book will focus on luck and perseverance amid growing up in foster homes throughout the country and experiencing life-long trauma.
“A lot of people who know me now know me as a mysterious, outgoing 32-year-old who has a story,” said Lopez. “I now have an attorney as a father and a doctor as a mother, so others probably assume I’m some spoiled rich kid, and that’s not the case.”
Lopez said he grew up in a toxic environment created by an unstable and abusive biological family and lived in 40 foster homes and three group homes during his early years before being adopted. His adopted parents were killed when he was 14, which returned him to a life without a steady home.
Throughout his youth, he bounced around the country, encountering homelessness, incarceration and constant upheaval.
After hearing his story on a radio show, Elaine Feraru corresponded with Lopez and took him in as her adopted son. She worked with him to develop his grammar and writing skills and was his main inspiration for writing his winning essay and eventually, his memoir.
“I forced him to write,” said Feraru in a phone interview. “I bugged him everyday. We joke that I am the editor-in-chief of his life.”
Without Feraru’s influence, Lopez said he probably would not have entered the essay contest in the first place. Though Lopez said he never intended to get published, he always wanted to write his story and said the process has been therapeutic for him.
“Time and time again I’ve been told by others that my story will help someone else,” said Lopez. “It’s like one big ‘it gets better’ story with a couple of twists in the middle.”
Lopez has always had a passion for the raw art of storytelling. At around age 26, he started getting published and a year later, came to Guilford College where he further honed his craft.
Through work on The Guilfordian and in English classes, Lopez developed his academic writing abilities and distinctive style.
Assistant Professor of English Mylène Dressler said Lopez’s honesty, clarity and unadorned prose were some of the qualities that made him stand out to her as a writer as well as his obvious passion for writing.
Lopez plans to attend law school and continue a life of helping people. He hopes that whoever his story reaches will be inspired, whether they themselves are in a bad position or have the ability to help someone who is.
“There’s a lot of ‘unhappy’ in the book,” said Lopez. “I’ve gone through a lot in life, but there has to be an upside. Most people would have said my story was finished at a very young age, but I just kept on going.”
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Debbie Cece • Feb 8, 2014 at 3:31 pm
You certainly did keep going! So proud of you, Victor.
Rusty Van Patten • Feb 7, 2014 at 10:57 pm
Can’t wait to get my hands on it!